10.31.2024

**Three Months Without You**



Today marks three months since you left this world, and the weight of your absence is as heavy as ever. It’s hard to put into words the ache I feel, a constant reminder of the bond we shared and the moments we will never get to experience again.

I find myself replaying our memories—the laughter that filled our home, the late-night talks that stretched into dawn, and the countless adventures we embarked on together. Each memory brings a mix of joy and sorrow, as I remember your vibrant spirit and how you lit up every room you entered.

Life without you has been a journey through waves of grief. Some days are bearable; I can smile at the memories we created. Other days, the pain feels overwhelming, like a shadow that follows me wherever I go. I often reach for my phone to share a moment with you, only to be reminded that you’re no longer here.

You were more than my sister; you were my confidante, my supporter, and my anchor. You understood me in ways that no one else could, and your wisdom guided me through life’s challenges. I miss your laughter, your voice, and the way you always knew how to make everything feel okay.

As I navigate this profound loss, I am learning to honor your memory by embracing the lessons you taught me. You showed me the importance of love, compassion, and resilience. I want to carry those values forward, to live a life that would make you proud.

Though the pain of missing you will never fully fade, I take solace in knowing that your spirit lives on in my heart. I promise to keep your memory alive, to speak your name, and to share our stories with others.

Thank you for being the incredible sister that you were. I will forever cherish you and hold you close in my heart. Until we meet again.


10.30.2024

Dont stop searching for joy

You’re going to have bad days.  

Sorry to tell you that, but it’s true.   

You’re going to have bad days, and bad moments. 

Sure, you may even have a really crummy week.  

 But none of that qualifies for a bad life.   And I need you to remember that the next time life feels heavy. I also need you to remember no matter how bad your current situation is - There is always a reason to keep going.  

No storm has ever lasted forever.   

And none of yours will either.   

It’ll always get better; it’ll always get easier.  

Just don’t stop searching for the joy, Love. 

 As long as you keep looking - You’ll always find it.   


I promise.   

10.23.2024

Enhancing The Natural Strengths Of Your Face

 We should all love the face that we have, and the distinct qualities it offers us as individuals. However, one of the best ways to do that is to know exactly what those strengths are and how you can play up to them. Here, we’ll look at a host of tips, from natural beauty-boosting exercises to more involved solutions, and how they can help you make the best of the beauty you have.



Take Care of It

The foundation of showcasing your face’s natural strength begins with proper care . Moisturizing daily and staying hydrated are key steps to maintaining healthy, glowing skin. A well-moisturized face not only feels smoother but also looks more vibrant, allowing your natural features to shine. Hydration, both through topical products and drinking plenty of water, helps to keep the skin plump and youthful. Additionally, using products suited to your skin type, such as gentle cleansers and sunscreens, can protect the skin’s barrier and prevent issues like dryness or irritation. By nourishing your skin from the inside out, you ensure that your face has a healthy canvas.

Accentuate It with the Right Palette

Choosing the right makeup palette can highlight your face’s natural strengths, such as your eyes, cheekbones, or lips. A subtle application of foundation or concealer that matches your skin tone helps create an even complexion without masking your unique features. Blushes, bronzers, and highlighters in complementary tones can enhance your bone structure, giving your face a more sculpted appearance. For the eyes, selecting shades that contrast or harmonize with your eye color can make them stand out, while lip colors can add balance and symmetry. The key is to enhance, not overwhelm, allowing your natural beauty to be the focal point.


Enhance What’s There

For those seeking more defined or enhanced facial features, non-surgical cosmetic options like chin filler, cheek fillers, or lip enhancements can be a viable option. These treatments can add volume or contour to areas that may lack definition or symmetry. Chin filler, for example, can provide a more balanced profile by adding structure to the lower face. Dermal fillers, in general, are designed to highlight and enhance your natural features without drastically altering your appearance. Consulting with a professional ensures that the enhancements suit your face’s proportions and bring out its natural strength in a subtle yet effective way.


Try Out Some Facial Exercises

Facial exercises, such as facial yoga, can also help strengthen and tone the muscles in your face, improving its overall appearance. Regularly performing exercises that target areas like the jawline, cheeks, and forehead can increase muscle tone and improve circulation, giving your face a more lifted and youthful look. These exercises are simple, often involving stretching and holding different facial expressions to work specific muscle groups. Over time, they can help reduce the appearance of sagging skin and fine lines, further emphasizing your face’s natural strength.


Enhancing your face’s strengths can lend you the confidence to hold your head high and truly turn some heads. Keep the tips above in mind and see how they work for you.


10.21.2024

3 Home Renovations with The Investment

 

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Making your home an oasis is something personal to each and every person. While you want to make changes that invest in the value of the property and enhance its resale value should the time come to sell, you also want to create a home that is uniquely yours and gives you everything you want and need from the space so you can maximize your enjoyment living there.


Fortunately, home improvements and adaptations offer the perfect opportunity to marry these two goals. You can find the ideal balance to increase your home's value while also personalizing the property and infusing it with your personality, creating a space that truly reflects who you are and what you love.


But what can you do to make your home perfect? These suggestions are ideal ways to renovate your home and add value and smart investments that can significantly enhance your home's worth, providing a solid return on your investment.


Add A Sunroom

A sunroom is described as a room with large windows that let in a lot of light. Typically, there is between 75 and 90% glazing to flood the space with sunlight, blending the home to your outdoor space to allow you to take in the surrounding area without going outdoors. Modern sunrooms can be incredibly energy efficient and designed to complement a range of houses, even those with more unique stylings and shapes. Your sunroom will be attached to the house and can be the perfect place to spend sunny days, those winter months, and every day in between. Estimates suggest you can recoup up to 50% of the cost of adding a sunroom to your home upon selling in some areas, especially if you're looking at Custom Designed Sunrooms to complement the building and the landscape.


Landscaping

If you love to spend time outdoors instead of cooped up inside a building, one of the best investments you can make is to do your landscaping. Again, this is an area that you can customize to meet your exact requirements. According to The American Society of Landscape Architects, a well-landscaped yard can be your haven for peace and tranquillity or fun and excitement as per your wishes and give you a 15 to 25% ROI on your investment. At the same time, other sources suggest you can recoup up to 400%. Of course, the more you invest, the quality of design and finish, as well as maintenance and compatibility with the design of the house, can impact the value landscaping can add. Still, it's a worthwhile investment for your enjoyment, too.


Basement or Attic Conversion

Maximizing the internal square footage of your home by renovating unused areas has always been a popular endeavor carried out by homeowners worldwide. If you want to boost your home's value and get the most from the building, then looking at renovating your basement or attic, if you have one or both, can be the perfect way to do so. Renovating these areas can give you decent returns, 86% on basement work and 75% for attic projects, and are dependent on the quality and the scope of the work. This means ensuring you cover aspects of the renovation, such as making the basement watertight, adding in electrics and plumbing if required, increasing natural light sources, or mimicking natural light with interior lighting issues. You need to pay attention to the heat in the attic for renovating the top of your house as this space can get warm, so an extra HVAC unit could be required or added insulation; you could also need to add windows and electrics, and plumbing up there too if your space is going to include bathroom features or an ensuite. The versatility of these spaces allows for multiple uses, making this project an exciting opportunity to enhance your home's value and functionality.
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